At a certain age, hormones do act up in a way that women show an eagerness and willingness to have babies. There is a time to have kids -- when you are fit and able to run around after them. It takes energy especially after a hard day at the office. And also when you feel you are ready to take the responsibility of an additional person or twins as in my case.
And wisdom tells you that this period is typically a few years after you have been married. Women are having babies at 40 also. More than hormonal urge the pressure comes from family, friends planning their families and the confidence to shoulder an additional responsibility. These are the principle considerations for having a baby. Aashi is clearly optimistic. They allow you a months break post delivery. Women are multi-taskers; so they can handle anything.
The concept of father-leave post the 6th month of childbirth should also be incorporated. Men will then have equal share and like women they will also share equal responsibility. In her various interactions with patients, she finds that women getting into the role of a provider as against the nourishing role , nuclear families and dual income households is coming at a very big cost.
Your earning power goes up so you can provide better for your kids. You have been working long enough to build credibility in the company or industry and therefore can afford to take time off or follow a more flexible schedule without anyone questioning your commitment.
Studies vary and the length of time it takes you to get pregnant depends on a number of factors, but all the studies show the same trends: as you get older, the percentages drop. How age affects fertility is pretty simple to explain.
Stand in any supermarket and take a look at the egg section. The boxes contain different quantities of eggs, sure. But they all have two things in common: 1. The number of eggs in the box you take to the check out is the same number you will find upon taking them home. The parallels with human eggs are fairly consistent. We are all born with the total number of eggs that we will EVER have.
Your genes and lifestyle can also play a role:. Diana has never felt the urge to have children. Still, she has felt external pressure around her decisions. Plus, I enjoy living life childfree. Des feels similarly. Des and Diana were two of many individuals we heard from who simply have never felt a biological need to have children. The popularity of this metaphor is still strong, and it still supports a traditional view of women.
For Sara Beth, an educator in NYC who has written publicly about her relationship and desire to start a family, the question of running out of time was a big one and was the root of anxiety. When she became a widow, she began to wonder if her chance at having children had passed as well. Sara Beth struggled with these concepts for a long time, but after she recently married, they almost immediately discovered she was pregnant.
Find someone to talk to and actively seek more information about your own fertility. The more information you have about your own health and fertility, the less you leave up to chance. Start with the Modern Fertility Timeline Tool.
Some genes that control ovarian reserve can lead to early menopause and trouble conceiving. If you have one or more of these signs, your biological clock may be ticking faster than you thought.
If you want to have a baby, it may be time to consult a fertility specialist.
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